Hi, I am Elissa and I am The Harmonised Parent

I'm a psychologist and coach, and I support overwhelmed parents to nurture connection through a lens of compassion and curiosity.

I get that parenting isn’t the only role you play—you're also a partner, a professional, a friend, and a person with your own needs. It can feel overwhelming, and the pressure to 'balance it all' can make you feel like you’re failing.

That’s why I created the Harmonised Parent, a method designed from evidence based theory, my 25 years of working with children, teens and families in vairious settings and my personal experience in the arena of parenting. I have supported many amazing parents who felt they were only ‘just’ surviving and they wanted to take it to the next level. They wanted to be intentional in their parenting role because they knew that connection with their child was directly related to their child’s welbeing.

Parents that I work with know that connection with their children isn’t about ‘fixing’ a behaviour but rather it’s about compassion and curiosity to allow a growth in the relationship and they want my support to empower them.

I work with parents who want to be more intentional, more conscious, and more confident so they can show up for their kids in the way they desire.

Learning The Harmonised Parent method guides you to find a ‘pleasing enough’ blend of all you roles so you can parent with certainty while still living a fulfilling life.

So if your goal is to feel good about how you are showing up in your life and in the lives of your children so everything in the family flows better. I am ready to guide you on that transformation.

If you want to work with me 1:1 or to join my mailing list for early access to my online programs. Please get in contact.

To understand the difference between Elissa’s clinical work and coaching please read the following terms and conditions.